"SOUP - ER" "SOUP-ER" "SOUP-ER" my wonderful 2 year old is screaming at the top of her lungs this morning...I knew what she wanted. She was waiting impatiently for me to turn on PBS and her one of her favorite shows "Super Why"
I don't mind this show, in fact I kind of like it and often have its theme song stuck in my head for the whole day. The idea behind the show is solving our problems by looking in a book for the answer and always after jumping into a book looking for the answer the same thing happens...at some point they have to CHANGE the book in order to help out or in order to solve the problem. They book characters are in a pattern of unhealthy behavior or behavior that isn't going to get them anywhere until the SUPER group helps them and changes the story.
I have been thinking a lot about churches lately and the patterns of destructive behaviors that continue to lead them. So far in my short career of ministry, I haven't met many churches which are truly healthy - sitting on a committee that deals with all the Presbyterian churches in one area has only solidified this belief - that most churches are not truly healthy and those that think themselves to be are usually the most unhealthy.
At the end of the day, Super Why is a great example of how our churches work. First, each person in our church continues the same behavior that they always have and thus often remains in a destructive pattern. We see this when we look at the history of the churches. In Judges there is a constant cycle of the people retreating to bad behavior and God letting them be conquered then, a Judge/ Prophet comes up from the Hebrews, they defeat the conquerors and then there is a period of peace. And then the pattern repeats. For the program Super Why it takes just the power to READ and the Dictionary power to change the pattern and change the super story. For the Hebrews it took the appointing of a Judge and usually some sort of bloody battle.
The second lesson that we can glean from Super why - is the power of words. And the reality that people use words for their own purpose and often to hurt people. Usually one of the choices for you to change the words to is a "silly" choice. Often this silly choice would lead to a worse outcome.
Just as we often fail to read the whole of the Bible or we pick and choose pieces that we want to use for our own good. So too do we do that to everything else we read, including blogs, Facebook posts and emails. Unless we get to know the person writing or we read the whole of the story, we fall into the trap of reading more in to it then we are suppose to. You see, as Christians, we do this to the Bible all the time and as Christians we do this to each other.
This is especially true when we don't get to know or care about the person behind the words. When we read the Bible without knowing the cultural behind the words we aren't entering into the full conversation. When we read people's words out of context then we aren't giving the all to those words.
It deeply saddens me that I have had this blog for several years now, sharing in full honesty the truth as I see it and have shared the link with people to read. And yet, many people haven't taken the time to read. I have taken lengths to make sure that my full identity is not known to all who read this blog, in order to give some separation from my church ministry. But at the end, if you have read all my blogs and if you know me outside of the world wide web, you know me to be a deeply honest person who stands up for justice and follows God with all my heart. I have shared several personal stories on here about my convictions and my life. I don't take back anything that I have written, I am however, deeply sadden that people haven't taken the time to actually know the whole of the story - before jumping to conclusions. If you pick the words, then like the Super Why you are going to have a Super Big Problem.
